Baby Jaws - Breastfeeding a Teething (or Toothy!) Baby

Duh Nuh Duh Nuh………….Duh Nuh Duh Nuh. (come on, you know you just read that out loud).  

You know they’re coming.  You’ve heard all the severe warnings from well-intentioned friends and family.  You’re scared of what’s to come, but know you’ve gone too far to turn back.  Shark-infested waters, you ask?  Noooooo - a breastfeeding baby who has grown TEETH!  

Somewhere around 6-8 months (sometimes earlier, sometimes later), your baby’s first tooth will erupt.  This is most likely an event you will celebrate, both because of the milestone that it is, but also because it may be a temporary break from the cranky, drooly, mouthy baby who replaced your own sweet one a couple of months back.  There are lots of symptoms that point to teething, but the most common ones are: red and swollen gums, increased irritability and drooling, sleep disturbances, and low grade fevers.  Your baby has most likely learned that chewing or gumming on items helps ease the pain and will try to cram everything within reach into his/her mouth.  As that tooth begins to emerge, there may be some small worries creeping in on your excitement about this next stage.  What will it be like to breastfeed a baby with teeth?  Will my baby bite me? Some moms will find that they do start to feel the baby’s teeth while nursing - baby may scrape teeth across nipple when latching or delatching.  And yes, sometimes the baby will bite.

Why did he bite me!?

Short answer is that it’s not because he doesn’t like you!  New teeth bring a whole new sensation for baby.  He may want to explore his world using his new teeth and will scrape and/or bite items that come into his mouth.  Another reason that your baby may clamp down onto your nipple during a feeding is because of teething pain. As mentioned above, babies learn that biting and chewing on items may offer them some relief.   If they are experiencing teething pain while breastfeeding, they may try to alleviate that pain by biting down.  Or, your baby is finished with the feeding and wants to play!

Note: Sometimes when persistent nipple pain starts when the top teeth come in, it can be caused by an unresolved upper lip tie that is causing the baby’s top teeth to scrape against the nipple.  Make sure your baby’s upper lip flanges out, like fish lips, to prevent this pain, or consider having his/her upper lip tie revised.

What should I do?!

Almost all moms will have the same reaction the first time their babies bite them while breastfeeding - some loud yelling and possibly a quick change of position!  This is a completely normal and expected reaction, but you may notice the sudden sound and movement startles your baby.  The best thing you can do is soothe your baby and resume the breastfeeding session.  If your baby should bite you again, calmly remove the baby, give them a quiet vocal command (‘no’, ‘that hurts mommy’, etc) and temporarily end that feeding session. If your baby is still hungry, then offer the breast again to finish the breastfeeding session.  

Also, some moms find it helpful to rub a cold, wet facecloth on baby's gums before latching to desensitize the teething pain before latching.

Because of the sucking mechanism babies use when breastfeeding, it is impossible for them to actually remove milk from the breast when they clamp down on the nipple, therefore biting may indicate baby isn’t hungry enough to feed.  This is clear when a baby will bite towards the end of the feeding.  One way to prevent this is to watch your baby while feeding, and when he/she starts to show signs that he/she is almost done (suck pattern will slow greatly, baby may come off often and smile and interact with you), calmly remove him/her from the breast and end the feeding session.  

For almost all breastfeeding babies, this biting is a temporary phase.  As they grow more accustomed to their new teeth and learn that biting means the breast is taken away, they will likely stop the behavior.  If your nipples become cracked or sore because of any biting, we recommend applying organic coconut oil - it is soothing along with having antibacterial and antifungal properties.  

Rest assured, the biting is normally a very fleeting behavior.  Before long, the waters will once again be safe to enter.  

If I Give My Newborn Baby a Bottle, Will She Refuse the Breast?

Originally published on February 11, 2014; Revised August 27, 2024

Author: Robin Kaplan, M.Ed, IBCLC, FNC

The short answer is “we don’t know”.  There is so much information out there about nipple confusion.  Some will tell you that if anything other than a breast *touches* your baby’s mouth, he’ll never want to breastfeed again. Others will regale you with stories about how their exclusively breastfed baby had bottles! cups! pacifiers! in the first few hours of life and had no problem switching back to breast.  Each baby and situation is different.  It’s never a given that your baby will, or will not, develop nipple confusion if he/she has a bottle before breastfeeding has been successfully established.

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The San Diego Breastfeeding Center was established in 2009 by Robin Kaplan, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant, Functional Nutritionist, and parent.  Her vision was to create a judgment-free, inclusive support system for families navigating infant feeding challenges. 

SDBFC offers a wide range of one-on-one breastfeeding, infant feeding, and nutrition consultations - as well as classes, support groups, online articles, and social media - making it your one-stop-shop for all things infant feeding!

What is Nipple Confusion?

Bottle nipples and breast nipples have a very different feel to the baby, so sometimes when babies are used to one and they are introduced the other, it can seem confusing.  You can help to prevent this by choosing a bottle nipple with a sloped, wide base rather than a small, thin, long nipple.  This will help the baby to continue to open his/her mouth widely while feeding, which is what we want him/her to do while at the chest/breast.  However - it is often a “flow preference”, rather than nipple confusion, that can cause a baby to have a difficult time switching from bottle to chest/breast.  Even the “slow flow” bottles the nurses use in the hospital flow much faster than the breast, especially during those first few days when milk volume is low.  Plus, even with those “slow flow” bottles, the baby doesn’t have to work very hard to get the milk to flow into his/her mouth.  When the bottle is tipped, the milk often just pours into his/her mouth.  At the chest/breast, the baby has to suck for a while to elicit the “letdown” of milk, and then throughout the feeding is only rewarded when he/she sucks at the breast.  With a bottle, the milk pours into his/her mouth whether he/she’s sucking or not.  These babies are smart!  They learn very quickly that with one form of feeding, they don’t have to work as hard.

How Can I Avoid Flow Preference?

The easiest way to avoid flow preference is to only feed your baby at chest/breast until breastfeeding has been established, baby is back to his/her birth weight, and has gone through his/her first growth spurt that occurs around 2-3 weeks of life.  However, there are many different situations when it may be necessary or appropriate for a baby to fed in an alternative way during those first few weeks of life.  Some of these situations may include: premature babies who haven’t developed the suck, swallow, breath pattern yet; birth complications that force parent and baby to be separated for some period of time; anatomical challenges that prevent the baby from being able to latch on properly (tongue/lip ties); or sometimes parent’s preference - damaged nipples, etc.  If you do feed your baby another way, there are things you can do to avoid the possibility of your baby developing a flow preference, or preferring an alternative feeding method.  If your baby is able to latch comfortably, one option is to supplement at the chest/breast using a tube and syringe, and to either deliver the supplement very slowly and only when baby is actively sucking, or allow the baby to pull the supplement on his/her own.  This helps the baby to continue to associate the breast with food, as well as ensuring baby has to work for the flow.  If you do bottle feed, you can pace the bottle feeding so that it simulates a feeding at the breast - I’ll discuss this in greater detail in the next paragraph.

What if I Need/Want to Give my Brand New Baby a Bottle?

If a baby does receive a bottle, there are some things you can do to help prevent a flow preference from developing.  The most important thing to realize is that there really isn’t a truly “slow flow” nipple, and that most bottles are the same, even the ones that claim to be designed for a nursing baby.  It’s not so much the bottle you choose, but the method you use to feed the baby.  Baby should be fed in a paced manner, so that the length and pace of the feeding mimics a breastfeeding session.  The amazing online breastfeeding resource, KellyMom, has a great article on how to properly bottlefeed a breastfed baby - http://kellymom.com/bf/pumpingmoms/feeding-tools/bottle-feeding/.  Another great resource regarding bottle/breastfeeding is www.breastandbottlefeeding.com.  Both sites contain a great amount of information on “nipple confusion” and flow preference and how to avoid them.  

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Ashley’s Success Story

As an IBCLC, I work with a lot of moms trying to get their babies back to breast after being fed via bottle.  I’m always excited to share my own story to give them some hope and let them know that it is possible to transition a baby who is exclusively bottle fed to a baby who exclusively breastfeeds!  My first child was born in New York City, in the fall of 2007.  The hospital I delivered at had two lactation consultants on staff, but the one who was scheduled to work the day my daughter was born was in a car accident and not able to come in. So I fed my baby with an incorrect latch for a day and a half. By the time the lactation consultant arrived on the day we were being discharged, my nipples were cracked and bleeding.  I was in extreme pain and every feeding brought bouts of panic and anxiety with it.  Looking back, I realize that she had a lip tie and that may have been causing the painful latch.  I chose to pump for a few days to allow my nipples to heal, and found that pumping and bottle feeding caused much less stress.  So I exclusively pumped for my daughter for 4 months.  

Exclusive pumping is hard work!  You’re basically doing double feedings - by feeding the pump, then feeding your baby.  Plus with the constant washing of pump parts, I felt like I was chained to the house every three hours so that I could pump to maintain my supply. On the flip side, there were benefits to it as well.  My husband could feed the baby and I was able to get out of the house early on to do things like laundry.  :)  However, I always felt like I was missing out on a HUGE piece of those early months with my baby.  I’d always assumed I’d breastfeed exclusively, and felt like a failure that I wasn’t.  I kept trying periodically, but my baby would often cry at the breast and I would get frustrated easily and give up, assuming it would never happen.  But I kept trying, and finally, at 4.5 months, she was latching regularly and I was able to put away the pump!  She nursed until 14 months old, and I’d never felt such pride or accomplishment about anything before.  I use this story to encourage moms that just because their babies aren’t latching RIGHT NOW, that doesn’t mean that they won’t later.  

If your baby is struggling with bottle feeding or breastfeeding, we are just a consult away!

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About the Author

Robin Kaplan has been an IBCLC since 2009, the same year that she opened up the San Diego Breastfeeding Center.  Robin was the founding host of the Boob Group podcast and published her first book, Latch: a Handbook for Breastfeeding with Confidence at Every Stage in 2018.  Melding her passions for supporting lactating parents and holistic health, Robin finished her Functional Nutrition Certification in 2023. In her free time, she enjoys hanging out with her two teenage boys, hiking, traveling, weaving, cooking, and searching for the best chai latte.

Tackle your Postpartum Trouble Spots: Arms

Written by guest blogger, Autumn Bonner

Hi Moms! Are you starting to feel more toned and tight from our first 2 trouble spot workouts?  In case you missed them, check out my previous articles about how to tone your tummy and your butt.  Today we complete the program by tackling our arms!  

Your arms are actually one of the few parts of your body that doesn’t go through major change during pregnancy, but the normal weight gain that comes along with growing a baby may have left you with a wiggly wave.  You know the kind I mean, when you wave and then your under arm keeps waving?  To get rid of the extra fat and tone those guns, it takes the same 3 keys: toning, cardio, and healthy eating. 

Let’s talk about toning for a minute. Many women are afraid of lifting weights or doing push-ups for fear of ending up with hulk arms.  Good news, women simply don’t have enough testosterone to bulk up like men do (even when you lift heavy weights).  So don’t be afraid to really challenge yourself with the strength exercises below.  You’ll end up with the toned tight arms you desire, no hulks in sight! Plus, strong arms are really a necessity for motherhood. Have you lifted a car seat carrier lately?  The everyday tasks of mothering include lots of lifting, pulling, and pushing. The moves below will strength all the muscles in your arms and shoulders to prepare you for your daily life as a mom. 

Here’s your 20 minute Arm Toning Plan! For this workout you’ll need:

• Your baby 
• Ergobaby carrier (or similar carrier)
• Timer (you can use your phone)
• Chair
• Diaper bag or dumbbell 
• Mat 

As with any exercise plan, be sure to get your doctor’s clearance before starting a new activity.

Warm up – Put your baby in the Ergobaby carrier. For 1 minute, march in place and pump your arms to raise your body temperature and prepare for the workout.  Then switch to a step touch for another minute and swing your arms as you move. Repeat both moves again for a total of 4 minutes.

Cardio/Strength – We are going to alternate between 1 minute of cardio and 1 minute of strength, so get your timer ready. 

1 – Tricep Dip – This move tackles the wiggly wave! Sit on a chair with your hands by your sides gripping the edge of the seat. With your feet flat on the floor move your hips away from the bench (keeping your butt near the edge). Bending your elbows back along your sides, lower down slowly, then press up to the starting position. Complete as many repetitions as you can in 1 minute. Your little one provides some extra weight to challenge your triceps. 

2 – Power Punches – Let’s sculpt the shoulders! Stand with your feet a little wider than shoulder width and your toes and knees pointing outwards (like a dancer’s plie squat).  Extend one arm to the side and alternate punching high and low as quickly as you can.  As you punch, squat up and down with your legs. Stay on one arm for 30 seconds and then switch to the other arm. You will really feel this in your shoulders.

3 – Diaper bag curl – Whether it’s a diaper bag, infant carrier, or bag of groceries, we use our biceps all the time as moms! For this move, grab your diaper bag (or a dumbbell) and hold it in one hand. Keeping your elbow near your side, perform a curl to lift the bag up to your shoulder. Slowly return to the start. Repeat as many reps as you can for 30 seconds and then switch arms.

4 – Mountain Climber – For the last two moves, take your baby out of the carrier and lay him/her below you on a mat. The mountain climber is a total body move that is great for cardio.  Your arms are stabilizing your body so they will get a workout too. Come into a plank position on your hands. Make sure your hands are directly below your shoulders and that you are a straight line between your head and your feet. Bring in one knee at a time towards your chest.  The faster your pace, the more challenging this move will be. Try to keep going for a whole minute.

5 – Push up kiss – Give a little love and get toned arms! Assume a push up position. You can choose to be on your knees to start or your toes for more challenge. Make sure your hands are directly under your shoulders and that your hips are in line with your body. Slowly lower down and give your baby a kiss at the bottom, then push up to the top.  Keep going for a full minute.

Take 1 minute to rest and then repeat these 5 exercises once more. 

Stretch – Finish by stretching as your baby lies nearby on the floor and rehydrate.

So there you have it! You now have a complete workout program to tackle your trouble spots and help you fit back into those pre-pregnancy jeans. When you feel like you are ready for more, I encourage you to sign up for a free 30 day trial of my online program for moms at www.MyTailoredFitness.com. We have an entire workout program designed for moms including more great exercises you can do with your baby in the carrier. Follow us on Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, or Twitter for more fitness and nutrition tips!  Here’s to a healthy and happy 2014!  

Tackle Your Postpartum Trouble Spots - Butt

Written by guest blooger, Autumn Bonner, co-owner and co-founder of My Tailored Fitness.

Hi Moms!  Autumn here from Tailored Fitness back this week to help us tackle our next trouble spot, the Butt, with a baby-wearing workout you’ll love.  If you missed our first post about how to tone the tummy, you can check it out here, Tackle Your Postpartum Trouble Spots: Tummy.  

There are 3 changes that occur during pregnancy that affect our backsides:

1. Weight gain – It is completely normal to gain weight in places other than your belly during pregnancy.  It’s part of the way your body makes sure you have enough nourishment for the growing baby. You may have noticed that as your front was getting larger (aka: breasts and belly) that your backside was getting larger too (aka: your butt).  I like to think of it as nature’s way of making sure we don’t fall over .   
2. Loss of muscle tone – Towards the end of pregnancy, the weight of your growing belly makes it much harder to exercise and to build up the intensity necessary to maintain muscle tone. We end up losing much of our muscle tone, especially in our glutes!  
3. Postural Shift – There are also some crazy postural changes that occur during pregnancy. If you look at the two pictures below showing your posture pre-pregnancy and your posture at the end of pregnancy, you can see that your pelvis tilts forward. This causes the muscles on the backs of your legs (your glutes and hamstrings) to stretch and in turn lose some of their strength.  

So to get your derriere back where it belongs after pregnancy, it takes the same 3 things we talked about last week:

1. Toning
2. Cardio
3. Healthy Eating

Here’s a 20 minute Butt Toning Plan that combines toning and cardio! Combine this plan with your healthy eating and your tummy toning workout from last week and you will be well on your way to your pre-baby body (or an even better one)!  As with any exercise plan, be sure to get your doctor’s clearance before starting any activity.

Warm up – Put your baby in the Ergobaby carrier and find a set of stairs you can climb. If you don’t have any at your house or in your apartment complex, look for a nearby office building or park that has some you can use.  Chances are they will be empty. To warm up, walk up and down the stairs for 2 minutes. Be sure to be near the handrails in case you lose your balance.  It’s harder to see your toes when wearing your baby, although you may be used to that from being pregnant! 

Cardio - To get your heart rate up, alternate between 1 minute of quick stair climbing (of course safety is #1, so only go as quickly as you feel comfortable, it won’t take much to get your heart rate up) and 1 minute of slow start climbing with a glute squeeze after each step. The photo shows a glute squeeze, but basically as you step up on a stair, lift your back leg straight behind you and squeeze your glute! Keep alternating for a total of 5 minutes.

Strength –Keep that baby in your carrier for these strength exercises. 

1 – Squat and Squeeze – With one foot on the step, lower into a squat with the weight on your heels. Since you are wearing your baby, you will naturally want to drop your chest, but keep your chest up and let the legs do the work. Rise up from the squat and step onto the step lifting your outside leg up into a side glute squeeze. You will need to engage your abs to maintain your balance as you lift your leg.  Slowly return to the starting position and repeat for 10 reps, then switch legs and do 10 reps on the other side. Rest and then repeat another set.

2 – Wall Sit – Find a stable, smooth wall. Place your back against the wall and lower down until your thighs are parallel to the ground. Make sure your entire back and shoulders stay against the wall and hold for 1 minute. Rest and then repeat for another minute.  This is a great time to connect with your little one. She/he can definitely help distract you from your burning legs! 

3 – Butt Blaster – This one is killer, but so good for targeting the glutes. Take your baby out of the carrier and lay his/her below you on a matt. Come onto your hands and your knees. Keeping your leg bent, lift one leg up pushing the heel up to the sky. Return to the start and then open the knee to the side. Keep alternating lifting back and side on the same leg for a total of 10 reps. Then switch and repeat on the other side. Rest, and repeat both sides a 2ndtime.

Stretch – Finish by stretching as your baby lies nearby on the floor. Also, be sure to drink lots of water throughout the day. 

If you are looking for more ideas for how to tone your glutes with your baby in your Ergobaby carrier, check out this lower body strength video from My Tailored Fitness, my fitness program for moms. 

Be sure to check back next week as we tackle our final trouble spot: arms!

Common Concerns While Breastfeeding - What is That White (and painful!) Spot on My Nipple?

Welcome back to our blog series…. Common Concerns While Breastfeeding.  These aren’t the complicated, ‘come-to-my-house-immediately’ phone calls we receive.  Rather, these are the questions that come from clients and friends in the middle of the night, by text or by email, that don’t necessarily warrant a lactation consultation.  They can often be easily resolved with a few simple tricks.  So, we would like to share those tricks with you!

Many moms know the pain associated with a shallow latch during the early days, but have you ever had nipple pain suddenly begin after weeks or months of pain-free breastfeeding?  After checking nipples for signs of a poor latch, you notice a white spot on the nipple in question - you pick at it for a few seconds, but it still remains.  What is it?  What caused it?  What can you do to resolve it and get back to pain-free breastfeeding?  This is what’s called a “milk blister” or “milk bleb” and is not cause for great concern, but it can be an uncomfortable and unwelcome guest!

 

What is a milk blister?

A milk blister is a small white or yellow spot on your nipple - it is normally blocking a milk duct, hence sometimes the pain associated with it is felt both at the tip of the nipple as well as radiating out into the breast.  It can’t easily be wiped away or removed.  It may sometimes be associated with a plugged duct.  It is perfectly safe to continue to breastfeed while you have one.

What causes a milk blister?

There are two causes for what we call a milk blister.  One is that a bit of skin has grown over an open milk duct, blocking it and creating a blister.  The other is the build up of fatty milk at the site of the milk duct, and the calcification of this fatty milk, which then blocks milk from flowing from this duct. The things that can increase risk for a milk blister are:

• A recent plugged duct

• Nipple is pinched often while baby is breastfeeding

• Oversupply

• Unusual pressure from a bra or sleeping position

• Thrush

How can I get rid of the milk blister?

• Place some organic coconut oil on a cotton ball and place it on your nipple, inside your bra, in between feedings for a few days.  This will help break down the calcification at the tip of the nipple, as well as fight off any bacteria or yeast.

• Soak your nipple/breast in a saline bath of warm water several times a day.  According to Kellymom.com, add 2 tsp of epsom salt to 1 cup hot water.  Allow the salt to dissolve and soak your affected breasts prior to feeding. Then place a hot, wet facecloth over your breast right after the saline bath and right before breastfeeding/pumping.  This should help to soften the nipple and help the blister release while baby is feeding or while pumping.

• Apply moist heat to nipple prior to feeding

• Try to remove the skin prior to feeding - rub with a warm washcloth

• If all else fails, you can also ask your healthcare provider to use a sterile needle to open the blister.  After this procedure, follow up with organic coconut oil to keep the area moist and allow it to heal.

What if I keep getting milk blisters?

• Consider seeking help from a Lactation Consultant to try to resolve the underlying cause of the recurring blisters.

• Be sure your bras provide soft but strong support - avoid ones with underwire that may cause plugged ducts.

• Consider reducing the amount of saturated fat in your diet.

• Consider taking sunflower lecithin, 1200mg, 4 times a day, to keep milk ducts ‘slippery’ thereby preventing recurring plugged ducts and milk blisters.

What Every Mom Should Know About Breastfeeding During the Early Weeks

How much breast milk does my baby need per feeding?
What is common nursing behavior for a newborn?
How will I know that my baby is getting enough?

As a new mom, these are common questions that you may ask your pediatrician, midwife, postpartum nurse, family, and friends and GUESS WHAT..... they may all have a different answer!

How complicated is that?  

Sometimes you may feel like there are ‘too many cooks in the kitchen’ and that all of the advice you receive contradicts what you just heard from someone else 5 minutes ago. 

Talk about frustrating! 

Well, one of our goals at the San Diego Breastfeeding Center is to make breastfeeding as seamless and uncomplicated as possible.  We want to empower moms with knowledge and confidence to get breastfeeding off to a great start!

After listening to local moms express discontent about hearing contradictory breastfeeding information, we decided to do something about it.   First, we canvased our local breastfeeding mamas and asked, “What information do you wish you would have known about breastfeeding during those early weeks?”  Then we hired one of those awesome mamas, Elisa Suter, of Paper Doll Design Studios, to design a brochure that shares our top tips that every mom (and pediatrician) should know about breastfeeding during the early weeks.

Here is the final product!  Isn’t it beautiful?  We hope that this brochure provides the clear, consistent, evidence-based breastfeeding information our mamas are looking for.  

If you live in San Diego and would like us to deliver these brochures to your pediatrician's office, please email us at robinkaplan@sdbfc.com. 

If you live outside of San Diego and would like to order the Adobe file to personalize this brochure for YOUR local pediatricians and clients, please email us at robinkaplan@sdbfc.com

Tackle your Postpartum Trouble Spots: Tummy

Written by guest blooger, Autumn Bonner, co-owner and co-founder of My Tailored Fitness.

Happy New Year Moms!  Now that the family is gone, holiday cookies are eaten, and presents are all opened, you are probably settling back into your normal life as a mom.  If you are like most people, you are probably thinking about 2014 and how you’d like to make it even better than last year.  One of the areas you might like to improve in the New Year is your health.  Let’s face it: as a mom, caring for yourself usually takes last place.  You make sure your baby’s needs are met, take care of your spouse/partner, and after that, if there’s time, you take care of yourself.  Sadly this often leaves us disappointed…with how our clothes fit, with how often we get to exercise, and with our lack of energy.

To be the best moms we can be, we must take care of ourselves. The good news is that by carving out just 20 minutes a day you can make some big changes this year!  It’s also important to know that your exercise routine can go hand in hand with your breastfeeding goals!  Research proves that exercise does not impact the quantity or quality of your milk supply.  All you need to do is make sure to eat at least 1500 calories per day and a few more to make up for the calories you burn on those days when you exercise. Here’s a great postdedicated to exercise and breastfeeding with some helpful tips. Exercise has so many other benefits for a new mom like relieving stress, helping you sleep better, and boosting your immunity, so it is definitely worth making a priority!

Over the next 3 weeks, we are going to tackle the top 3 trouble spots for moms: tummy, butt, and arms. You’ll get a plan that you can do in just 20 minutes a day.  And the best part is that your baby will be right there with you as you use your baby carrier during your workout! So let’s get started with our first trouble spot: Tummy!

No other part of our body goes through as much change during pregnancy as our tummy.  Sadly, it doesn’t just bounce back to our pre-pregnancy shape easily.  It takes 3 key things to get a toned tummy post-baby:

1. Toning – Since your ab muscles were stretched so much during your pregnancy, they lost a lot of strength. Toning exercises for your core will help you regain the strength you need in that area.  Think beyond crunches, as there are a lot more effective ways to work your core as you’ll see in the plan below.   
2. Cardio – You also need cardio to get your abs back.  Sadly, you can do hundreds of crunches, but never see your abs because they are hidden under a layer of fat.  The best exercise for fat burning is a combination of strength and cardio.  So add some cardio to the toning exercises for maximum fat burning! 
3. Healthy eating – This one goes right along with the cardio. You can exercise all you want, but if you aren’t fueling your body with good foods, you won’t see results. Fill up on fresh fruits, veggies, lean meats, and whole grain breads.  As a new mom, you want to focus more on WHAT you are eating than on cutting calories.  Just remember, as I mentioned above, you have to make sure you are eating enough calories (at least 1500 per day) to ensure that your milk supply doesn’t drop. 

Ready to get started?  Here’s your 20 minute plan to tone your tummy!  Repeat this plan twice a week.

Note: As with any exercise plan, be sure to get your doctor’s clearance before starting any activity.

Warm up – Put your baby in a carrier and head outside for a walk.  Walk at an easy pace for 2 minutes to get warmed up.

Cardio - To get your heart rate up, alternate between 1 minute of fast walking and 1 minute of medium pace walking for a total of 8 minutes. If you have any hills nearby, include that in your route.  Pick a loop where you’ll end up back at your house at the end of the 8 minutes.

Strength – Head back inside, but keep that baby in your carrier for these strength exercises. 

1 – Zig Zag – Wrap your arms around your baby using your hands to support their head. Lower into a plie squat with knees and toes pointed out. Keeping your hips and legs still, lean side to side engaging the obliques. Repeat for 10 reps each side, rest, and repeat a 2ndset.

2 – Lunge with rotation – Regaining your balance is very important after pregnancy, and comes largely from strengthening your core. Lunges with rotation help challenge your core and balance effectively.  Step forwards into a lunge making sure your knee stays over your ankle. Then twist your torso towards your front leg. Push back to standing and repeat on the other leg. You are also getting some great leg work with this exercise! Repeat for 10 lunges on each leg, rest and repeat a 2nd set.

3 – Plank – This is probably the best exercise you can do for your core. Take your baby out of the carrier and lay him/her below you on the ground. Come into a plank position on your elbows and knees (if you are newly postpartum) or elbows and toes (if you are feeling stronger).  Hold this position for 30-60 seconds, rest, and then repeat a 2nd time.

Stretch – Finish by stretching as your baby lies nearby on the floor. Also, be sure to drink lots of water throughout the day. 

If you are looking for more ideas for how to exercise with your baby in your baby carrier, check out this postnatal core video from my fitness program for moms. We have whole video series with exercises with your baby. We even have a free 30 day trial. (The workout website is compatible with Chrome or Safari, so please use one of those browsers. Make sure you have clearance from your doctor before beginning exercise. By clicking the link above, you are agreeing to the Tailored Fitness Terms of Use.  For some of the exercises, it is important for your baby to have good head control.  Modify or skip exercises as needed to keep things safe for you and your baby.)

Keeping Up Your Milk Supply During the Holiday Season

Since Winter Break has descended onto our homes, Ashley and I are taking the next few weeks off from blogging to spend some quality time with our families.  However, that doesn't mean that you'll be left without our breastfeeding support until the new year!  We have over 300 articles on the San Diego Breastfeeding Center blog, which means there is no reason for you to google 'sore nipples' at 3:30am.  Just check out our extensive article list and you will be well on your way!

Here are some of our favorite tips for keeping up your milk supply during the holidays

1. Holiday recipes often include herbs that can affect supply.  Don't eat too much sage or mint - these are herbs used to temper down or dry up a mom's milk supply.  One mint cookie won't do it, but be aware of the amounts you are consuming.
2. Continue to breastfeed or pump at regular intervals.  It's very easy to skip feedings and/or pumping sessions with all of the holiday festivities, which can lead to plugged ducts and mastitis.  Yuck! Try to stick to your regular breastfeeding/pumping schedule to prevent your breasts from getting overly full and uncomfortable.
3. Traveling during the holidays, expecially with a baby or toddler, can really wear your body down.  To keep up your milk supply, stay hydrated, bring tons of nourishing snacks for the trip, and do you best to get good sleep.  Plus, follow your child's lead and squeeze in a nap or two throughout the trip.  Your immune system will definitely thank you for it!
4. Find your comfort level with breastfeeding around family members.  Enlist your partner as your cheerleader and advocate so that you can feel comfortable breastfeeding your baby in all holiday situations. If you feel timid around certain family members and friends, invest in a breastfeeding cover, like this one from Bebe Au Lait, so you don't have to leave the room everytime your baby is hungry.  It's also a good idea to practice at home in front of a mirror, you'll see how very little of your breast is actually exposed and this may help you to feel more comfortable.
5. If you start feeling under the weather, stick with herbs and over-the-counter medications that don't dry up your mucus membranes, as they may dry up your milk supply as well.  Herbs that support your immune system, that are safe to take while breastfeeding, are echinacea and vitamin C.  If you feel like you are coming down with a cold, you can take homeopathic oscillococcinum and yin chiao to build your immune system and speed up your recovery.  For over the counter medications recommendations, listen to our Boob Group podcast with Dr. Frank Nice, Breastfeeding and Medication.  You can also contact your local lactation consultant and ask her to look up a particular medication to see if it is safe to take while breastfeeding.

Lastly, here are some of our most popular breastfeeding articles to help you through the holiday season:

Advice for the Newly Breastfeeding Mama's Partner

Help A Mama Out; Ways Partners Can Bond with Baby Besides the Bottle

Help A Mama Out: Overcoming Nursing in Public Anxiety

Common Concerns While Breastfeeding: Sore Nipple Therapy for the Breastfeeding Mom

Common Concerns While Breastfeeding: Yikes!  Why are my Nipples Burning?

Common Concerns - Do I Have Mastitis?

We wish you a beautiful, peaceful holiday season and look forward to sharing more judgment-free breastfeeding resources with you in the new year!

Warmly,

Robin and Ashley 

Breastfeeding My Type 1 Diabetic Daughter

Almost 2 years ago, a dear friend of mine found out that her 19 month old daughter had type 1 diabetes and was fighting for her life.  Here's Theresa's triumphant story of how she was able to preserve her breastfeeding relationship while healing her daughter.  

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About a month ago a friend alerted me to a Facebook post that brought a wave of memories flooding over me from a day that changed my life forever as a parent.  A day that I will never forget, even though I wish I could.  It was literally the worst day of my life, but one that I will always be grateful for because it was the day my daughter’s life was saved.  

The Facebook post was from a worried mom whose child was hospitalized after being diagnosed with type 1, “juvenile,” diabetes that very day.  The mama was breastfeeding and was terrified not only for her child's life, but that she would lose the best way she knew to feed and comfort her baby.  A little over a year and a half ago I was in her shoes.  At 19 months old, we were told that our daughter had type 1 diabetes, was in diabetic shock, and needed to be rushed to the emergency room.  She came very close to losing her life and was in critical care for a week at a children’s hospital. 

While she was at her sickest (almost admitted to the ICU), she was not allowed to nurse.  For as comforting as breastfeeding can be, not being able to do it during a time of crisis was torture.  My daughter was barely conscious, was in pain and terrified while she was awake, and I could not even hold her because she wanted to nurse.  I hope no other mama has to experience the excruciating helplessness you feel in a situation like that.  Our children's hospital has no lactation consultants and, by the time they could find a pump for me, we had already skipped about 7 or 8 feedings.  I was scared to death and in physical pain myself.

When we were finally given the okay for her to eat, I had to fight tooth and nail to be able to breastfeed her.  The doctors finally consented to her having breast milk, but because she was not a tiny baby, the doctors did not think it was important.  They told me that she absolutely had to drink from a cup or bottle.  (I had a manual pump at home and did not respond well to it at all.  I could not imagine how difficult it would be to have to exclusively pump.)  I begged them to let me nurse her.  It was my milk after all, whether it came from a pump and was poured directly into a cup or came straight from my breast.  No mother should ever have to beg to be able to feed their baby.  It took hearing our daughter scream and sob hysterically for the doctor to finally take pity on us and let me breast feed her.  As I held my tiny girl in my arms, it was the first time I began to feel like there was a possibility that she would be okay. Still, we were encouraged to not let her nurse after that.

Eventually, we were able to meet with the hospital's diabetes dietician who helped me calculate the average amount of milk I produced per feeding.  We looked at the amount of milk I was able to express with a pump then, by using the general amount of carbohydrates contained in breast milk, we were able to determine a rough estimate for carbohydrates per feeding.  Together we came up with a plan to space out her feedings as much as possible to keep her blood glucose stable (after each meal and to go to sleep).  The dietician was a lifesaver and a champion for us!  She spoke with our doctor on our behalf and convinced him that including breastfeeding as part of our daughter's nutrition was in her best interest.  The doctor has since become supportive.

Continuing breastfeeding brought my daughter so much comfort in the months of learning to live with daily multiple injections and painful finger prick blood tests.  It was something normal and peaceful for both of us during a stressful time of adjustment.  It supported her overall health.  It was a perfect source of nutrition for her combined with solids and was amazing for bringing her blood glucose back up to a safe level if she began to drop low at night (we do use a fast acting sugar, like juice, instead if she is below a safe threshold).  I am so thankful that we were able to continue our nursing relationship until she was 32 months old.

Type 1 diabetes (T1D) is a life-threatening, autoimmune disease in which a person’s body attacks their pancreas, causing it to stop producing insulin, a hormone needed to properly process carbohydrates in the food we eat.  People with type 1 diabetes check their blood glucose levels every few hours and must inject insulin several times every day or continuously infuse with insulin through a pump.  There is no known cause of type 1 diabetes and, at this time, no cure.  It will never go into remission and cannot be reversed.  As a mom, you can't help but wonder if you caused it somehow but, it just isn't possible that you did.  It is not connected to poor diet or lack of exercise.  Our daughter never has had a drop of formula, never had sugar other than that naturally occurring in fruit, never drank juice prior to needing it to treat hypoglycemia, and eats primarily homegrown, organic solid food.

Not many people think that a baby or toddler can develop type 1 diabetes, however it is definitely possible.  Not all doctors think of it either and it is commonly misdiagnosed as the flu, with deadly results.  It is very important to know the possible warning signs.  I would recommend all moms be aware of any major changes in nursing.  A sudden onset of increased nursing (past the length of time a growth spurt or teething would account for) along with much more frequent wet diapers can be a signal of diabetes.  Diaper rash (especially without a history of it) and yeast infections can be symptoms of high blood glucose.  Also, consider vitamin D supplements if a blood test returns low for vitamin D levels and investigate further if the test results are extremely low.  The researchers think there may be a link between low vitamin D and diabetes, however they don't know if it is a cause of diabetes or a symptom of it.  Our daughter had increased nursing and wet diapers, weight loss and developed labored breathing. Thankfully our pediatrician picked up on the problem and took action immediately.

Warning signs of type 1 diabetes can include:

 • Extreme thirst

 • Frequent urination

 • Drowsiness, lethargy

 • Sudden vision changes

 • Increased appetite

 • Sudden weight loss

 • Fruity, sweet, or wine-like odor on breath

 • Nausea or vomiting

 • Heavy, labored breathing

 • Stupor, unconsciousness

 • Sugar in urine

Most importantly, if you feel that something is wrong, go with your gut and keep asking until you find answers!  A quick finger prick test to check the blood glucose level can rule out diabetes.  For this test, a small drop of blood from the tip of the finger is sampled.  Results are often immediate.  A simple urine test can also check for abnormalities.  Undiagnosed and untreated T1D can become deadly very quickly.

If you have a little one diagnosed with diabetes, ask to speak to the nutritionist about continuing to incorporate breastfeeding into their nutritional plan.  By pumping once and measuring the amount expressed or by weighing the baby before and after feeding they can help you determine the general amount of milk and therefore carbohydrates they receive at the breast with each feed.  (Because it is an estimated number and not exact, they can often account for the difference in the allotted carbohydrate plan.)

Also, there are amazing support resources available for small children with T1D!  Facebook groups like “Diapers & Diabetes” and organizations like JDRF offer support for families, education, a place for children to feel encouraged and like any other child, and help navigate the uncertain and ever-changing waters that are type 1 diabetes.  Additionally, JDRF funds research and is constantly striving to improve life for type 1 diabetics.  Most importantly, they are fighting for a cure for type 1 diabetes.

*** Please note that these are just our experiences.  I'm not giving medical advice and don't claim to be an expert on diabetes--I'm just a breastfeeding mom doing everything she can to keep her daughter healthy!  Seeing her grow and thrive, and watching her play momma and nurse her baby dolls, I think I might be doing an okay job.

If you want to learn more about type 1 diabetes, www.jdrf.org is a wonderful resource.  For a glimpse into our life with it or to help fund a cure, please visit:

 http://www2.jdrf.org/site/TR/Walk-CA/Chapter-SanDiego4053?px=2922459&pg=personal&fr_id=2382

or watch our story at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fc6r8HEnn0

My Village of Breastfeeding Support

 Over the next few weeks we will be sharing stories of triumphant breastfeeding mamas and their biggest supporters who helped them reach their personal breastfeeding goals.  If you would like to share your breastfeeding story and thank your biggest breastfeeding cheerleaders, check out the details in our recent blog article.

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Here is Stephanie's story.

It has truly taken a village to help me be successful in nursing both of my babies!  I knew I wanted to breastfeed, but, after the birth of my first son, my passion and commitment to it were a surprise to even me.  I was also caught extremely off-guard by the difficulties both of my boys encountered as we began our breastfeeding journeys together.  Tongue ties, lip ties, low weight gain, low supply, poor latch, pain/cracking/bleeding, overactive letdown, and more were all hurdles we had to cross.  There is absolutely NO way I could have made it to 13 months formula-free with my first son and still going strong and formula-free at 6 months with my second without these amazing people.

My husband!  My passion and commitment to breastfeed my babies surprised him also, but he never questioned it and stood by me no matter what decisions I made!  He became just as committed and passionate about it, knowing it was the best thing we could do for our boys.  He came to appointments, helped get the baby latched on time after time, stood up for me when others questioned why I didn’t just quit, and let me cry when it all just became too much!  He has truly been my rock through all of this, and I can sense his gratitude for the sacrifices I have made to give our boys this amazing gift!

My Lactation Consultants! Four different lactation consultants have come alongside my babies and me in our journey together.  Every single one of them encouraged me that I could do it when the hurdles seemed insurmountable.  They provided a listening, sympathetic ear when I just needed to vent or cry or talk it out.  They provided help, advice, referrals, and life-changing solutions that kept us going!

My tribe of other breastfeeding Mamas! Friends I have known since childhood, friends I’ve made in recent years, and people I met through the breastfeeding process made it all possible - others who had or were experiencing some of the same challenges, some who didn’t have trouble but believed just as passionately in the benefits of breastfeeding, some who visited, some who called, and one who even created an on-line community to connect us all!  There were many people in my life who didn’t understand why I didn’t give up when they saw the emotional and physical toll it was taking on me, but these other Mamas got it!  They knew why I couldn’t quit, why no challenge was too big!  

My virtual breastfeeding community!  Although I will never meet most of these women in person, the support, advice, commiseration, and encouragement they have provided have truly been critical!  To be able to jump online in the middle of the night when it just seemed like I couldn’t do it and have others on there to tell me that, yes, I could do it got me through many rough moments!  They have calmed nerves, answered questions, given virtual hugs, and just been an amazing support system!

My babies! Even from the very start and even in the face of all of our challenges, my babies have always loved nursing!  They didn’t quit so there was no way I could!